"Sympathy" vs "empathy" - what's the difference?
"Sympathy" is caring about someone's pain. "Empathy" is understanding it because you've felt it too. Here's the full distinction.
Sympathy = caring about someone's pain without necessarily sharing it
- "I have sympathy for what she's going through." (I care, but I haven't been through it)
- "My sympathies." (formal, often for bereavement)
Empathy = understanding someone's pain because you feel it with them
- "I can empathise - I went through the same thing last year."
- "She showed great empathy throughout the conversation."
The simple version
Sympathy: "I feel for you." Empathy: "I feel with you."
In modern use
"Empathy" has become the more valued of the two in personal and professional contexts - good managers are expected to show empathy, not just sympathy. The word is now somewhat overused in corporate communications.
What's the difference between "Sympathy" and "empathy"?
"Sympathy" is caring about someone's pain. "Empathy" is understanding it because you've felt it too. Here's the full distinction.
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